{"id":3798,"date":"2021-01-15T09:59:01","date_gmt":"2021-01-15T17:59:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dorcey.org\/?page_id=3798"},"modified":"2021-02-08T10:59:37","modified_gmt":"2021-02-08T18:59:37","slug":"anthony","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/?page_id=3798","title":{"rendered":"Anthony"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1 wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Before I can reflect on my own life, I need to introduce my parents and the families, places and times in which they grew up. I wish I knew an awfully lot more about their lives, all of them. Nonetheless, what I have come to know over the years has been critically important in shaping my understanding today of myself, mum, dad and others. The ancestry research and reflecting that I have done since my retirement from UBC a decade ago has had a major impact on the way I see them all today and, in turn, the way I see myself and my own life. It would be great to have the opportunity to talk with them from the way I see the world and my life today and to fill in the many gaps in my understanding of them. But that is not going to happen.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I therefore should make clear at the outset that what I have learned over the 76 years of my life so far about the lives of my parents, their brothers and sisters, and their own parents (i.e. my grandparents), either through listening to stories told or observing what transpired during our times together,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>is unfortunately very limited. Most of what I now know about the lives of my ancestors comes from researching government records and some brief conversations with a few of my cousins over the last ten years. No one has left us collections of letters or written memoirs or histories that would provide details and opinions. At first I thought this was extraordinary but I have come to realize it is the norm. Nonetheless, as others have shown many times, much can be interestingly written. I therefore embark on telling my story with realistically expectations and modest ambitions, and the hope I can rise to the challenge as others have before me.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">*******************<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">My dad was Hugh Patrick Dorcey and he was born in Walworth, London on 25th February 1911. At the time, his parents, Johanna and Daniel Joseph, were living at 134 Boyson Road with his sister, Maureen Ellen (1904), and brother, Owen Michael (1906), both of whom had been born a few doors away at 169. Three years later a second sister, Kathleen Mary, joined them all at 169.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">[PICTURE OF DAD]<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">While to me he was always \u201cDad\u201d, Grandma Johanna and mum usually called him \u201cHugh\u201d. Upon occasion he was affectionately referred to as \u201cBoy\u201d by others in the family, which I understand to have originated from him being the younger of the two boys. During my lifetime I heard some of his close friends call him \u201cHug\u201d, whenever they wanted something less formal sounding than \u201cHugh\u201d. Interestingly the two grandparents were often referred to as \u2018\u201cthe Mater\u201d and \u201cthe Pater\u201d by their children and later their wives and husbands, a reflection of terms not uncommon in those times and in their social world, oftentimes conveying respect but not always.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">[PICTURE OF MUM]<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">My mum, Florence Myra Pride was born the year after Dad on 3rd April 1912. Her parents, Andrew James and Florence Annie Pride, were then living at 10 G Block of the Peabody Buildings, Lambeth, London. Four years later a brother Walter James was born at the same location.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Grandma Johanna always called my mum \u201cFlorence\u201d, as often did my dad, family and her friends. When the three of us were alone, dad would occasionally call her \u201cTubby\u201d; which I always took to be a reflection of his deep affection and she clearly received it likewise. I never learned the origins of this tickling endearment. Her younger brother Wally who loved her dearly, often called her \u201cDoll\u201d and sometimes \u201cDolly\u201d; in it I heard his deep love for a big sister, who had always looked out for him.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It came out sounding like Cockney slang on his London tongue. Notably her lifelong friend from their school days in London, Grace Fleming (Clark) often called her \u201cFlorrie\u201d and this got picked up by her own kids, who still use it when they speak of her today.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">THE ORIGINS OF THE GRANDPARENTS &amp; THEIR FAMILIES<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">DANIEL JOSEPH DORCEY AND JOHANNA RYAN<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ANDREW JAMES PRIDE AND FLORENCE ANNIE WARD<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>All four of my grandparents were born in London between 1874 and 1887. Three of them lived there all their lives and died there; the fourth, Grandma Johanna, only left the city after her husband, Daniel Joseph, died in 1945 and spent the last twenty years of her life living with us in Cambridge or nearby in Saffron Walden, where her older daughter, Maureen, was a nun in the Carmelite Convent. My mother&#8217;s parents, Florence Annie Ward and Andrew James Pride, had died in 1925 and 1933, before I was born in 1944,\u00a0 and so I never got to know them. Grandpa Daniel sadly died in a traffic accident on my first birthday and so I was left with no memory of him.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">LATER? I don\u2019t know for sure when and where my parents met. Although Mum and Dad were living less than 2 miles apart when she was born and lived that close until the Dorcey family moved north of the Thames River to 59 Leadale Road in Stamford Hill in 1918, I have no reason to believe they knew each other during those early years. After the move Dad lived at the Stamford Hill home with his parents until he married Mum 22 years later and Mum in the meantime lived in a series of places in Lambeth, south of the Thames. So I doubt they met before they graduated from school.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The best I can do is offer the following theory for how they came to meet. It is based on the one thing I know for sure and comments I heard from each of them over the years. In 1939, dad and mum, were hired to be the manager and manageress of the Cambridge Steam Laundry, private company that had been in business since the 1880s and that got much of its business from the colleges and people working for them. The reason they got such good positions, when they were still only<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>28 and 27 years old is that they had recently graduated from the prestigious training program in modern laundry management that was offered by the Savoy Hotel in London. Since they did not marry until the following year, they must have committed to getting married as part of a long term commitment to the two positions.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Given this the question of when they met narrows to some time between finishing school about 1929 and finishing the training program at the Savoy in 1939, a 10 year period. To be admitted to the Savoy program they needed to have a training and employment record (and perhaps money for the course? Well\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p2\">\u00a0<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>NOTES<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>The Life and Times of Anthony: AKA Tony<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>WW2-Today<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I want this to be fun to write and read, at least by myself and perhaps also Plu, Zosia, Jeff and Sequoia.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It is my recollections and my reflections on my life, having reached the last quarter.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It is what I wanted to write when I retired from UBC on 1st January 2012. But I soon realized that I could not reflect on my life without knowing more about why my parents brought me up the way they did. And I could not understand why they did it the way they did without knowing about their lives before I was born. It was a rude shock to realize I knew almost nothing about their parents, my grandparents, and the lives they led before I arrived. And so began the 9 year diversion into learning about my ancestors.\u00a0 It has been time well spent. I am amazed at what I have learned about who they were and the lives they lived. But, even more important, has been its impact on my worldview. And how I want to reflect on my life. Well see where this leads.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At some point it will be worth reflecting on what I wrote in 2012 in <strong><em>From Laundry Boy to Professor Emeritus<\/em><\/strong>, if only as Preface or Appendix to whatever I write now.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It only makes sense that the first drafting should be in blocks of time in my life. This can be used to explore what I want to recollect about and how I want to reflect on them.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I am going to start with my birth on 28th October 1944 in Cambridge, England. A novel approach! It will obviously lead me to talk about events before I popped, how much will become evident as I explore what I want to say. Likewise a good endpoint will emerge. My best guess? From my parents marriage in 1940 and the start of WW2 through to when I start full-time school in 1950. i.e. the 1940s. Sounds neat. We shall see!<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">None of this bracketing is to say I won\u2019t want to write about events before 1940 and after 1950 as part of the discussion of the 1940s. There are always ways to do this in the recollections and reflections.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Start by drafting a list of topics\/recollections\/reflections I want to explore in the period 1940-\u201950.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Think about alternative ways to structure the progression through them in the writing. This could include a list of n topics only loosely interconnected. As opposed to plod thought the years.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Think about complementary ways to look at topics by secondary and tertiary means (e.g. tables, figures, stories etc).<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Make use of our photos as much as possible plus other illustrative materials from other sources.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At least in drafting use footnotes and links to web sites.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Final product could be Pages, PDF, webpage &#8211; one or all three. Start drafting as web page along with ancestry drafts on <a href=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\">dorcey.org<\/a>. The ability to directly link to other material is very powerful and attractive.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>TOPICS<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Cambridge as an extraordinary place in which to grow up. History, town and gown.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Brief bio of Mum and Dad (more as we progress)<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">What preparation did they have for becoming my parents<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Mum and Dad graduate Savoy by \u201939<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hired for Cambridge Steam Laundry Manager and Manageress<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Reserved Occupation of Manager<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">History of Laundry and Ownership<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hired with salary and perks: house, car<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Location on Cherry Hinton Road<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Had been in country side; water and space for horses\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A challenging beginning<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">New jobs<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">New town<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">WW2<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>CHRONOLOGY<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">XX June 1874\u00a0 Birth of Daniel Joseph Dorcey St, Saviour Southwark, London (died 1945)<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">11 September 1880 Birth of Johanna Ryan (Dorcey)16 Dunston Street, Haggerston, Middlesex<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">4Q 1886 Birth of Andrew James Pride Lambeth, London<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">1Q 1887 Birth of Florence Annie Ward (Pride), Lambeth, London<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">25 April 1903 Marriage of Daniel Joseph Dorcey and Johanna Ryan, Our Lady of Seven Dolours, Lower Park Road, Peckham, London<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">4 January 1911 Birth of Charles Henry Bernard Pride, Lambeth, London (died August 1911)<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">4Q 1911 Marriage of Andrew James Pride and Florence Annie Ward, Lambeth, London<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">******************************************************************************************<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>NOTES<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><b>The Life and Times of Anthony: AKA Tony<\/b><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><b>WW2-Today<\/b><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I want this to be fun to write and read, at least by myself and perhaps also Plu, Zosia, Jeff and Sequoia.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It is my recollections and my reflections on my life, having reached the last quarter.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It is what I wanted to write when I retired from UBC on 1st January 2012. But I soon realized that I could not reflect on my life without knowing more about why my parents brought me up the way they did. And I could not understand why they did it the way they did without knowing about their lives before I was born. It was a rude shock to realize I knew almost nothing about their parents, my grandparents, and the lives they led before I arrived. And so began the 9 year diversion into learning about my ancestors.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It has been time well spent. I am amazed at what I have learned about who they were and the lives they lived. But, even more important, has been its impact on my worldview. And how I want to reflect on my life. Well see where this leads.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At some point it will be worth reflecting on what I wrote in 2012 in <b><i>From Laundry Boy to Professor Emeritus<\/i><\/b>, if only as Preface or Appendix to whatever I write now.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It only makes sense that the first drafting should be in blocks of time in my life. This can be used to explore what I want to recollect about and how I want to reflect on them.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I am going to start with my birth on 28th October 1944 in Cambridge, England. A novel approach! It will obviously lead me to talk about events before I popped, how much will become evident as I explore what I want to say. Likewise a good endpoint will emerge. My best guess? From my parents marriage in 1940 and the start of WW2 through to when I start full-time school in 1950. i.e. the 1940s. Sounds neat. We shall see!<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">None of this bracketing is to say I won\u2019t want to write about events before 1940 and after 1950 as part of the discussion of the 1940s. There are always ways to do this in the recollections and reflections.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Start by drafting a list of topics\/recollections\/reflections I want to explore in the period 1940-\u201950.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Think about alternative ways to structure the progression through them in the writing. This could include a list of n topics only loosely interconnected. As opposed to plod thought the years.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Think about complementary ways to look at topics by secondary and tertiary means (e.g. tables, figures, stories etc).<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Make use of our photos as much as possible plus other illustrative materials from other sources.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">At least in drafting use footnotes and links to web sites.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Final product could be Pages, PDF, webpage &#8211; one or all three. Start drafting as web page along with ancestry drafts on <a href=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\"><span class=\"s1\">dorcey.org<\/span><\/a>. The ability to directly link to other material is very powerful and attractive.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><b>TOPICS<\/b><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Cambridge as an extraordinary place in which to grow up. History, town and gown.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Brief bio of Mum and Dad (more as we progress)<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">What preparation did they have for becoming my parents<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Mum and Dad graduate Savoy by \u201939<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hired for Cambridge Steam Laundry Manager and Manageress<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Reserved Occupation of Manager<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">History of Laundry and Ownership<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Hired with salary and perks: house, car<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Location on Cherry Hinton Road<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Had been in country side; water and space for horses<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A challenging beginning<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">New jobs<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">New town<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">WW2<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Memoir#Memoirs_today\">Memoirs expect fact<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p>Fact and Fiction\u00a0 \u00a0&#8212; Betwixt memoire and yarn?<\/p>\r\n<p>A YARN = Collins If you\u00a0<a class=\"ref type-def\" title=\"Definition of say\" href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/say\">say<\/a>\u00a0that someone\u00a0<span class=\"hi rend-b\"><a class=\"ref type-def\" title=\"Definition of spins\" href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/spin\">spins<\/a>\u00a0a\u00a0<a class=\"ref type-def\" title=\"Definition of yarn\" href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/yarn\">yarn<\/a><\/span>, you mean that they tell a story that is not\u00a0<a class=\"ref type-def\" title=\"Definition of true\" href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/true\">true<\/a>, often an interesting or\u00a0<a class=\"ref type-def\" title=\"Definition of imaginative\" href=\"https:\/\/www.collinsdictionary.com\/dictionary\/english\/imaginative\">imaginative<\/a>\u00a0one.<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3839\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/?attachment_id=3839\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Anthony-Wales-in-boots-scaled-e1612637343206.jpeg\" data-orig-size=\"1200,1670\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;MX710 series&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Anthony Wales in boots\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Anthony-Wales-in-boots-736x1024.jpeg\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3839\" src=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Anthony-Wales-in-boots-736x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"278\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>*****************************************************************************************************************<\/p>\r\n<p>I was born on 28th October 1944 in the Brunswick Maternity Home overlooking Midsummer Common, Cambridge, England. The two adjoining private houses below show the Home as it looked in 2000, little changed from\u00a0 the way it look when I arrived on the scene but long since converted to two private residential homes.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n<div id=\"attachment_3844\" style=\"width: 508px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3844\" data-attachment-id=\"3844\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/?attachment_id=3844\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Brunswick-Walk-9-10-materrnity-nursing-home-2000.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"498,376\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Brunswick Walk 9-10, materrnity &amp;#038; nursing home (2000)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Brunswick-Walk-9-10-materrnity-nursing-home-2000.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-3844 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Brunswick-Walk-9-10-materrnity-nursing-home-2000.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"498\" height=\"376\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Brunswick-Walk-9-10-materrnity-nursing-home-2000.jpg 498w, https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Brunswick-Walk-9-10-materrnity-nursing-home-2000-300x227.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 498px) 100vw, 498px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3844\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This picture of the <em>Brunswick Maternity Home<\/em> was taken for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cambridge2000.com\/cambridge2000\/html\/0004\/P4090670.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cambridge 2000<\/a> along with photos of other nearby buildings overlooking Midsummer Common.<\/p><\/div>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Although we always lived on the outskirts of the city, I often found myself back in this central area during the years I was growing up and before leaving to go away to university in Dublin and never return to live in Cambridge permanently, once again. The fates took over.<\/p>\r\n<div id=\"attachment_3845\" style=\"width: 786px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3845\" data-attachment-id=\"3845\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/?attachment_id=3845\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map-.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"776,557\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Midsummer Common map\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map-.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-3845 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map-.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"776\" height=\"557\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map-.jpg 776w, https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map--300x215.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dorcey.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Midsummer-Common-map--768x551.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 776px) 100vw, 776px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3845\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This map of the area surrounding Midsummer Common was drawn by an artist, Jon Harris (2017) who was recording the changes in the buildings and activities in this old part of the city.<\/p><\/div>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Brunswick walk is in the southwest corner of the map and the Maternity Home was next door to the big house shown on the map at the northern end of the walk and looking out over the Common to Victoria Avenue. Every year the cattle grazing on the Common were herded away at least twice for a fair and a circus to visit. Mum and Dad would always bring me to them when I was young and they would remind where I was born, pointing out the distinctive white building. Looking at the map today I am reminded of many other reasons that use to bring me into the area. While I was still young enough to believe in Santa Claus, my parents would bring me to the department store at Mitcham&#8217;s Corner top left, who put on the best visit with the man in Cambridge &#8211; the elevator to the top floor became a very realistic rocket taking you up into space. Just before the bridge<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">REFERENCES<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20120612161044\/http:\/\/www.british-history.ac.uk\/report.aspx?compid=66609\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">BHO Economic History of Cambridge\u00a0\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibiblio.org\/hyperwar\/UN\/UK\/UK-Strategy-VI\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">also see<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>OUTLINE<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Begun 7.2.21<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>SCENE SETTING up to birth<\/p>\r\n<p>Mum and dad born and brought up as Londoners, one out of Cotsworlds and the other Irish ancestry<\/p>\r\n<p>Finished school with Higher Leaving School Certificate at 18 or LSC at 16?<\/p>\r\n<p>Further training at &#8220;college&#8221; dad technical\/engineering; Mum secretarial?legal<\/p>\r\n<p>Savoy training<\/p>\r\n<p>Cambridge Steam job 1939 ?earlier, evidence of different name at managers house suggests start in &#8217;39 (check Rock Road for 383<\/p>\r\n<p>Home and lands<\/p>\r\n<p>Laundry<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>TONY 1944 to 1971 Graduate UW and move to UBC<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.44\u00a0 (0)\u00a0 Tony born Cambridge; living at &#8220;Loughton&#8221;, 383 Cherry Hinton Road<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.45\u00a0 \u00a0(1) housekeeper Violet<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.46\u00a0 \u00a0(2) housekeeper Violet<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.47\u00a0 \u00a0(3) housekeeper Violet\u00a0 Cherry Hinton Hall Nursery and Clinic<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.48\u00a0 \u00a0(4) housekeeper Violet\u00a0 Cherry Hinton Hall Nursery and Clinic<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.49\u00a0 \u00a0(5) housekeeper Violet\u00a0 Castle Hill Nursery<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.50\u00a0 \u00a0(6) housekeeper Violet\u00a0 Castle Hill Nursery<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 51\u00a0 \u00a0(7) housekeeper Jolly\u00a0 \u00a0Kindergarten Paston House for 1 school year (i.e. Sept&#8217;51-July&#8217;52) Sally arrives?<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 52\u00a0 \u00a0(8) housekeeper Jolly St. Andrews RC (i.e. Sept&#8217;52-July&#8217;53) Spring &#8217;53 Confirmation and Communion<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 53\u00a0 \u00a0(9) housekeeper Jolly Ware Boarder (Sept. &#8211; Dec&#8217;53); St. John&#8217;s (Bridge St.)(Jan &#8217;54-July&#8217;54)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 54\u00a0 \u00a0(10) housekeeper Judy\u00a0 St. John&#8217;s (Bridge St.) (Judy to Billy Graham Crusade London in Spring &#8217;54 &amp;\/or &#8217;55)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 55\u00a0 \u00a0(11) housekeeper Judy St. John&#8217;s Grange Rd.(Prep School) 11+ (new bike Christmas &#8217;54 or &#8217;55; Grandma with us<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 56\u00a0 \u00a0(12) housekeeper Judy? St. John&#8217;s<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 57\u00a0 \u00a0(13) housekeeper Judy? St. John&#8217;s (took 13+ and King&#8217;s entrance)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 58\u00a0 \u00a0(14) housekeeper Judy? St. John&#8217;s (Sept. &#8217;58 started King&#8217;s Ely)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 59\u00a0 \u00a0(15) King&#8217;s Ely<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 60\u00a0 \u00a0(16) King&#8217;s Ely &#8217;60 July, 5 &#8220;O&#8221; Levels (Stayed down Sept &#8217;60-&#8217;61<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 61\u00a0 \u00a0 (17) King&#8217;s Ely &#8217;61 July, 6 &#8220;O&#8221; Levels<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 62\u00a0 \u00a0 (18) King&#8217;s Ely &#8217;62 July 1 &#8220;O&#8221; Level (General Mathematics)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10. 63\u00a0 \u00a0 (19) King&#8217;s Ely March &#8217;63 Use of English and July &#8217;63 4 &#8220;A&#8221; Levels (Sept &#8217;63 start CCAT; moved to Hinton Way by &#8217;64)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.64\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(20) CCAT July &#8217;64 3 &#8220;A&#8221; Levels (Sept. &#8217;64 started Trinity Dublin)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.65\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(21) First Year TCD Math, Physics, Chemistry [July 1965, Dad died in Carlton Way) <em>no TCD exam results (Christmas &#8217;65 celebrate 21st)<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.66\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(22) Repeat First Year TCD Philosophy, English Lit., Economics {?Passed exams?YES?} [Sept. Moved to Aberdeen]<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.67\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(23) Entered Second Year at Aberdeen Economics, Political Science, International Relations (Married 30 Dec &#8217;67)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.68\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(24) Entered First Year of Honours at Aberdeen Economic Science (Summer job in USA UW)<\/p>\r\n<p>28.10.69\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0(23) Completed Second Year of Honours at Aberdeen\u00a0 in July. (Sept.) began First year of Grad. Sch. UW<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>CHRONOLOGY QUESTIONS<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>When did we have a housekeeper who was a disaster and did not last long? After Violet probably.<\/p>\r\n<p>When was Grandma living with us? Just before Ware decision for onetime. Hinton Way another.<\/p>\r\n<p>When did we have students living with us? Kenneth King? Others?<\/p>\r\n<p>When did I have tutoring by students? Before 11+ but not after.<\/p>\r\n<p>When did I have elocution lessons? 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